Am I being too hormonal

@Makayla girl, that is reach!!!! Incognito don’t listen to the above. Some people don’t get married straight away because they don’t want an inexpensive registry office wedding. It took us 2 years to save for our wedding (in that time had a baby) It’s not as if he’s made no commitment, he has proposed and they have 2 children, that’s a lot. Also is marriage some solution? I know a lot of couples who are unhappily married! The post is about her in laws not her partner so stop trying to pick at non existent insecurities. It sounds like you’re speaking on past experience and projecting it onto other people. Incognito - I would be a bit miffed but let it go. I’m pregnant with my second and some relatives on my husband side haven’t congratulated us (but I know they are going through a rough time at the moment in their own marriage so I don’t take it personally) sometimes it’s hard to be happy for others when you’re not happy yourself.

It’s giving to needy! Why does it matter if they never say anything? Will that stop your joy? Or ruin the happiness if they don’t? What will really be missed if they don’t? I feel like ppl like you stress yourself out because idgaf what you feel about how I do anything I do lol so wether u congratulate me or not long as you don’t say anything stupid to me we straight lmao. Idgaf about your approval that much about anything and that’s anybody 😭

@Makayla how did you answer a question that wasn’t even asked?? A bit rude to go on and on about someone’s relationship status. Anyway, I think sometimes people are less excited when the 2nd child comes. I noticed this too. At first I was a little down but I just let it go. Everyone has their own lives to live. When we get pregnant that kind of becomes our lives but other people aren’t living the pregnancy with us so for them it’s just whatever.

@Makayla this was so funny to read are you that bored to list all this crap 😂! What world are you in? You don’t need to be married to have a loving family! I’m sure he wouldn’t be with her if he didn’t want her or the children! You may have daddy issues but don’t bring them on others. Why would someone be so bothered about another persons life to be upset they’re not married how’s that their business?, what would you have said if this was her husband then?. I have a baby and I certainly don’t need some paper or to waste money on marrying my partner to know we love each other! That’s very insecure to marry someone to show the world they love you, married people can still leave/ cheat so I’m sure he ent making his way up no ladder.

I would be annoyed, but maybe it speaks to your relationship with them! Try being more involved in their lives if you want them to be more involved in yours. Sometimes you have to lead the way

Please don’t listen to this lady saying what shes saying about marriage. We’re not in the 70s. I don’t believe this is why they haven’t congratulated you. I have 3 and not even engaged yet. So please don’t feel bad. People were all over my first baby so excited about it but when o announced baby 2 and 3 people were happy for us but not as excited as they were about my first child. The first one is always like “oh my god that’s so exciting I’m so happy for you” and usually the baby gets spoilt but when other siblings happen it’s more of a chilled vibe where it’s more “aw that’s nice another baby. A sibling for so and so” I’d say you’re feeling hormones ❤️

@Makayla when did the subject become about marriage lol I’m laughing my head off. Girl he would marry me today if he could. I said no simply because I want “our kids” in my wedding. I lost my father to cancer and I’d like my sons to be old enough to walk me down the aisle. Anyways that’s not the point or what I asked so not sure what you’re on about.

Thanks girls. I think it’s def my hormones fluttering in hardcore. It’s why I love this app. I can get real honestly to kind of kick me back into gear 🙏🙏❤️❤️ so thank you