Fed up of the lazy parenting!

I’m sorry, but my husband is the laziest father I have ever known. I’ve only ever seen him change 2 NAPPIES since our child became a toddler. His excuse is “he doesn’t like toddler poop, he’ll be sick”. FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! Barely plays with our child unless I call him out on it. I’ve helped our child hit every milestone, not him. He doesn’t do any of the feeds. If he ends up cooking our child’s food, he says to me “you’re the one that’s meant to be making their food, not me”. I’m always the one to get our child off to sleep while he wonders off into the bedroom. He cleans the bottles and washes them in the bath. That’s it. I do everything else. My patience is wearing SOOO THIN!

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Yesh he gotta do better ! I’ll tell his ass you helped me make these children’s they are your responsibility too , some fathers literally leave they women to do all the work and it’s exhausting

Awh I’m sorry mama. I’d definitely give him a talk. I’m usually the one that changes a couple diapers and I give that excuse because I’m 13 weeks pregnant lol. He’s definitely gotta step up more. Raising a child is a team effort!

This feels like rage bait, and it hurts my heart because I know it’s not and it’s really what you’re going through! Seriously idk how you’ve put yourself with this for this long. He needs to make some major changes or resentment will build and things will blow up. A lot of moms I know in similar situations are afraid to be single moms until they realize that they already are and are being the moms to their partners as well as their own kids.

Was this unhelpful before you had a child or has this developed since?

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