@Leanne I’m so indecisive 😝
I didn't find out with my first and I did with my second :) I suppose it does take away that specific magical/surprise moment of finding out when you birth the baby, but I was so excited to meet my girl throughout the whole pregnancy. When I birthed her I didn't even think of the magical/surprise factor I just knew she was here! It doesn't suit everyone though. My husband REFUSED to find out and made me swear not to tell him haha
I think it’s nice to find out and grow a connection with the baby and nice for the child who’s here already know brother or sister AND if you have the same or different for what you need to buy x
We didn’t find out with our first but did with our second. It was a completely magical experience but I don’t feel it changed anything in terms of bond with the baby or the birth experience.
We didn't find out the first time and it was even better finding out at birth as I was so sure he'd be a girl so got the biggest shock 😂 definitely not something we could recreate! So this time we've found out and we're having a girl which was just as magical as I was so excited 🥰
@May thanks for this my worry is that it won’t be the same magical moment as it was the first time round.
@Kirsty so you didn’t regret finding out afterwards and wish you had waited that’s what I’m worried about
@Laura I don't regret it at all. It's allowed me to have a big sort out of all of the boy clothes I've kept too and I love organising
I’m too impatient I had to! 😂 it’s your choice girl xx