Meal time set ups

Hi ladies I feel like mealtimes have become the most stressful part of the day with my LO and we need a reset. We sit in the kitchen. He is in his highchair and I sit opposite him on a bar stool leaning on the island. We're not level - I'm a bit higher. He doesn't really eat - more so throws everything; doesn't want to be there; gets upset with me when I stress and as it happens all the time it's getting disheartening. My in laws have no trouble feeding him - they sit at their dining table in the kitchen which is more level with the high chair and distract him with toys / tv. My parents let him run around and feed him whilst he's playing. Hoping you'll share your setups for inspo so I can mix things up a bit? TIA 🙏🏼