Motherhood is killing me
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I’m so sorry mama, wish I could come and give you a helping hand ❤️ it really does take a village. But it’s incredible what you’re doing and please don’t forget how bad ass you are because most people can’t do that by themselves. You are amazing! I’m praying you get the break you deserve
It is so hard to do this alone. My heart breaks for you. Sending prayers and a virtual hug. 🫂 If you have a car, please go to library hour and see if you can make at least one mom friend there. Sometimes, the best support comes not from family. You need a break to rest and recharge. If needed, cut the breastfeeding out and give your little one another outlet. A pacifier, fruit, cheese stick, etc. You are doing all you can. I am proud of you!
@JL I’m currently looking at daycares! Viewed one yesterday and have another tour tomorrow. It’s scary but I at least reached my goal of having him walking/somewhat talking before having to put him in. Dad only helps financially, and visits once a month even though he just sits on the couch and hardly plays with him 🙄 It’s unfortunate but it is what it is, his loss. I need to get a car so that I can find a gym. Lacking both of those things have led to me sinking deeper into depression as we’re stuck in the house/at the same park everyday and I’m getting fat from emotional eating smh. Thank you for your kind words 💗
@Alisa thank you 🥹
@Diana Devine unfortunately I have no car, which makes me feel even more trapped. We go to the park almost everyday but outside of small talk I haven’t made any real mom friends. Most the moms in my area are older and married and we’d not really relate to each others lives very well. I just bought the organic “sucker buster” nipple balm. It’s supposed to make ur hips taste horrible and help wean. Praying it works. Praying hard lol. Thank you for the love. 💗
I'm so happy to hear that for you! Our baby is in daycare and it has been so wonderful. Everyday they come home learning something new and having that extra village of people who your child loves is so nice!
I wish I was there because I would help u out for sure
Where do you live? I’m a stay at home mom too so I feel exactly how you feel. If you’re in MA I can come visit one day and give you a few hours if you’d like!
Erie County
I don’t think that’s near me 🥺
I know babies don't "need" milk. But I still give my 18 month old 3 bottles of whole milk in a sippy cup a day (he just loves it!). We transitioned at 1 year from breastfeeding to whole milk and it was the best thing for my body and mental health. I didn't even realize how good it was for me until I switched. Best of luck!
@Becca I have tried all the milks 😭 whole, 2%, almond, coconut and soy. He won’t drink it 😭 but he lovessss water! I just bought this organic nipple balm called sucker buster that supposed to taste awful and the reviews say it worked wonders for getting their toddlers off them 😂 gonna try it out and offer some warm whole milk and see if it works.
I'm so sorry. That's a lot for any one person to handle. Is there any chance of paying a village? A trusted babysitter, even with you in the house, might give you a little sanity break. Even a gym membership with childcare included might help - you could get a workout and child free shower. If his dad is in your lives at all, maybe talk to him about it? Maybe be honest on social media and some unexpected friends will step up? If all else fails, remember this is just a season. You're doing a great job and it will only get better over time. Sending love and hoping things get better soon! 🙏🏻🫶🏻