Tired!!!

I have the same problem narcissistic husband maniuplating my daughter also my mother in law maniuplating her too

@Natalie so what you do at that time ? Same mil fill bil sil they all interfere in my life, manipulated changed my daughters mind against me. I know how I taken this time. 2020 2021, 2022, 2023, 2024. these shameless people they have no limits, they do not know that God is watching them continuously because they are living their best life of some other birth. That’s why they are thinking they can do anything, but once this good time over and the bad time starts, they have to replay what our religion teachers us, and my mother in law, she’s a stepmother in law who do not have even her own child. Then also she has no sense. She is the second wife of my father-in-law. She should understand from which circumstances she came to this place, but she has the bad mentality of divide and rule policy, giving importance to the elder one and subsiding to the second daughter-in-law, I just give dam to her now

I'm not at that stage unfortunately my daughter is only 14 so I'm trying my best for her not to be maniuplated against me. Narcissistic people are horrible and your best to stop talking to them, if your daughter wants you she will learn x

@Natalie absolutely I have stopped taking concern of anyone now, even for my daughter, I think myself that I am also a daughter of a mother, can’t see a drop of tear in our mothers eyes, but I do not know what this generation is ending up with just with their selfish needs who fulfilling they are on their side. This what she did, so I have not stopped even taking her concern, what is she is doing where she is going with whom she’s talking, because when she will become a mother, this only my thoughts says then she will take things into real that how mother produces a child and take pain of nine months. Neither a father will tell her nor any family relations. So even I have left it with a time, and you’re right. I have to heal myself, so I only take care of myself now

I am not religious but have experience dealing with NPD in family members. My advice to you is stop thinking God is going to fix something or that justice will ever be served. You must be your own justice and problem solve your way out of this family. With your daughter, you must continue to behave the way you believe is right, and wait. She is either toxic like them, or she will figure it out. Many people manipulate religion to suit themselves. Please detach from this or it will keep you confused. In short, figure out how to leave this family.