My husband is deployed currently for guard and we have a 3 year old and a 6 week okay. It’s a lot. We did a pre deployment poster board of everything we wanted done prior whether that was tasks around the house or stuff we wanted to do as a family. But don’t save the house shit til the very end. We said no a lot to things last few months before he left so we could do what we really wanted even if that was just being at home together. People understand. Family matters, but also family matters.
My husband is deployed right now and I have two young girls, 2 and 4! Message me!