He cheated on me again.

My husband and I have an 18 month old together, in May I confirmed that he had been cheating on me a few months previous to that and I was absolutely broken and devastated because I really never saw it coming. He promised it would never happen again and we cried together and he really made me feel like that was true and it was just a stupid mistake. He used to always be so reassuring to me and told me how much he loved me and that he would never ever hurt me. Lately he’s been dealing with depression and has said some things to me that I really can’t unhear about our relationship. That he wants to run away, doesn’t want more kids, doesn’t know if he loves me etc. and now I find out he’s been talking to someone again. No idea who she is but I got him to admit to it and he says she’s a friend who he talks about his mental health with. Tried to get me to feel bad for him that she’s the only friend he has right now. lol. But yet he deletes all the messages between the 2 of them… idk what to do I’m so over this relationship but I can’t afford life without him and I’m so freaking heartbroken about this piece of shit man. Pls help.

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Also he doesn’t view this as cheating… because it’s not physical. He’s been hiding his phone from me for weeks now. Won’t even cuddle on the couch with me at night. Probably because he wants to be on his phone and he’s afraid I’ll see something. It’s all lies, non stop lies. Even when you catch them they just keep lying…

He will always do it so it’s up to you if you want to deal with it or not

Depression isn’t an excuse for cheating. Because you’ve already given him a chance, him an ultimatum: he gets help and stops messing around on you or that’s it. If that’s not enough to stop his behaviour then it’s time to move on because he doesn’t deserve you or your daughter. I’m so sorry you’re going through this ❤️

Do you have family or friends to go to. You don’t want to stay and put your kid through all of this. They deserve better! And staying just teaches your kid that’s how relationships should be… show your kid that settling for a cheater is never an option. After a second affair I don’t know if trust can ever be repaired.

Ur problem is thinkin your can’t afford life without him. This isn’t the old days you clearly like what you are dealing with and plan on staying so vent and go lay down. Because if you don’t plan on loving yourself or standing up and getting what you deserve then be quiet take it and move on wit the miserable days you have chosen! Orrrrrrr stand up love yourself want better for yourself and get out of there you CAN do whatever with or without a man and I’m sorry you feel differently!

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