Help! Found out bd may be expecting

So I just found out that my baby dad may have another child on the way. We’re not together. Recently split up. Baby girls 11 months old. And I don’t know how to feel. I’m so shocked. But explains a lot as to what he was doing while I was doing everything majority of the time by myself. I’m highly embarrassed, never thought he would put me through this as we been together for 9 years. I know we’re not together but this is a lot! And so shocked coming from him. I feel sorry for him because I know he still loves him. I decided to end the relationship and he really does not want another kid. Is that normal? I can’t talk to anyone about this right now I’m too embarrassed.

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Him having another kid with someone else sounds more of a him problem.

Ur feelings are normal. Like anything difficult in life eventually it won’t affect u as much. Some men just keep having more n more kids with diff females.

Hmm, well if he didn't want another kid he should have bagged it, silly man!

I’ve been there in that exact position and he ended up with twins so now he has 3 kids under 3 poor guy (sarcasm)

I’m in this same exact situation. My BD just had another baby in June and never once told me about it . I found out through social media (im due in December) . Once I confronted him about it he showed his ass off and abandoned me and my unborn baby . That being said its NOTHING at all you should feel sorry for him for 💯 if he truly did not want another kid, he would not have had unprotected sex with a woman 💯every time you start to feel bad for him think about ALL THE CRAP he’s done to you . That will make those sorry feelings so away real fast 💯 wishing you peace throughout that whole ordeal 🫶🏼✨you got this momma

Thank you so much for all your messages, it has given me some piece of mine❤️ it is what it is I guess

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