Is it over?

I met my guy just over two years ago. We were basically inseparable from the moment we met. Our sex life, great. We moved in together got married and now expecting our first. Suffice to say, so much has happened in this amount of time. However, lately he has stated his concerns about the change in my libido, he believes that I’m treating sex like a chore with him and, understandably a turn off. He began to make comments about asking if we should add someone to our relationship to share the load. Personally, the idea seems redundant and I don’t want to share. Last night we got into a big blow out about it. He was really crass, he began to get condescending. I lashed out and said I’d find somewhere else to live after he said he was going peruse dating sites. He shut down and has been ignoring me ever since. He wouldn’t even talk to me before he left for work. I am stressed ready to give up and check out.

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Pregnancy can affect libido massively due to all the hormones and the lack of energy and the being uncomfortable etc and a good partner would understand that! It doesn’t mean it’s forever but you shouldn’t feel obliged to have sex even if he is your husband. I think it’s disgusting that he’s even mentioned bringing in another person to your relationship and even after you’ve said no has said he’s going to persue dating anyway. If I was you id get up and leave as soon as possible and start fresh somewhere else. I hope your okay ❤️

Sounds like he’s mostly in it for sex. Since you’re not providing… he’s over it? Unless you guys have had others join your relationship before, that idea from him would sound insane to me. I’d think he didn’t really stay with me for me, just because of the sex.

I barely had sex during pregnancy tbh, I was tired and heavy, my back hurt, I never felt sexy, even though my partner told me I was. I think during my whole pregnancy we had sex a handful of times only

In my humble opinion, this is not the behavior or the words of a partner who truly loves you. Yes sex is important to a relationship but your partner is acting like sex is all your relationship was worth…

Sounds like he love bombed you in the beginning and now that you aren’t doing everything that he expects of you-sex- he is moving on. I would not be surprised if he had someone lined up already. And the silent treatment is abuse. Emotionally. So time to kick his ass to the curb.

I’m so sorry… what disrespect he is showing you

He is an immature little boy who thinks that telling you he will look for women to sleep with on dating sites will make you have more sex with him. He is trash, if you don’t want to leave him and can afford to - go sleep at a hotel a couple of nights - get him worried of suddenly ending up all alone. Actions speak louder than words.

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