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It’s difficult on weekends to Saturday we take my little girl swimming and on some Sundays he works, he’s working this weekend but I might be able to have a few hours on Saturday morning I just don’t know how to communicate with him 🤷♀️
I only have 1 and struggle during the day and i still live with my mum and sisters and my sister ans partner both aren't working atm so hats off to you for powering through and doing it! In regards to telling your partner how u feel i completely get that apart from my partner isn't working and he still rarely does much, he'll clean bottles and have baby for the odd hour here and there so i can have a bath or a little sleep but it's always me not eating to sort the baby and me not getting sleep on a night and he just says am 'moody' all the time and that he's sick of my moods and no matter how much i explain to him why and that im stressed that he's not working and im finding me him and our son while he sits and plays cod all day he still doesn't listen and turns me into the bad guy! seems like a lot of men are the same. I have got through to him a few times by literally crying 🤣 i have to sit there in tears for him to listen and it'll change for a little bit be them it's the same
Could you not put your oldest in nursery to give you a bit of a breather? Even if it was just a day or couple of days a week
I have a 2 year age gap with my 2 and my husband works from home and I still struggled so I can’t imagine how you are coping and to then try communicate that and get it almost thrown back in your face, that’s not ok. I hope you’re ok!! It’s bloody hard and you must be knackered. Are you able to take a few hours for yourself on the weekend to just get some air, a coffee. He may realise just how hard it is with both whilst you’re gone as well but it will give you the time to maybe think about how you can tell him hope you’re feeling burnt out and need some support and what that might look like from him?