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@Bria true
I wasn’t divorced yet when I met my current husband. He was by my side the wrong process (its a long one) We had been separated for a while but getting bf divorced isn’t just signing a paper and being done! Also fair!! Houses are flipping expensive 😂 You don’t have to marry him right away but to date him wouldn’t hurt, get to know him more and see if he’s worth sticking around for 🫶
@Emily it's so hard 😫
None of this off the bat is a red flag. I would ask why they’re not divorced yet, if the explanation is reasonable then I say go for it. All him living with roommates shows is he’s living within his means and not trying to get into a bunch of debt or a house he can’t afford.
My partner and I were both going through divorces when we met. Coincidentally both our ex spouses served us respectively on Valentine’s Day 😆 in California divorce can be endless so mine finally wrapped a year after we were together and his is winding down to the end because they’re both ex military and other things that make it a little more complicated. He also had a roommate at first. If you’re not in a rush I take each fact as its own as long as there’s no red flag or sign of dishonesty.
@Nika thanks!
Lots of people get separated but not immediately divorced for a number of reasons. Lots of states require you to be legally separated (living in separate address) for at least a year, divorce can be expensive, they may actually have to go to court to finalize it. You never know. You could always ask him why they broke up, why not divorced yet, if they have kids what is the plan for co-parenting. If he has a problem with answering any of those questions, he may not be the one