Who's in-laws are extremely involved it's annoying?

My in-laws call my husband at least twice a day. We literally live like 15 minutes away, my mom in law stays to help me with my son and daughter 3/4 days a week and we also see my father in law 2 or 3 times a day. They ask for pictures every day and even evesdropped on my call regarding my daughter and formula feeding. They constantly want to know everything. I don't want to sound rude or disrespectful, but there is a limit, and it's just too much for me. My family isn't like this. And they just don't get the picture. They help out tremendously, and I wish I could make that stop, so that way they don't feel like they can pop up unannounced. They give their opinion all the time, throw suggestions, and tell us how we should raise our kids. They literally want to get a house so we can all live together. I can't deal with it. It's overstimulating for me, and I just want to create memories with my kids and husband.

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Legit sounds like you’re talking about my in laws 🥴 I feel like I’m going to snap any moment or start being a bitch all together

So... sit them down and have the discussion with them.

Omg, I would go insane. I'd definitely talk with my spouse about it and make sure he agreed. Then, I'd want to sit down with the in laws and have a conversation about how to put up some boundaries so that they can build a life of their own and so that you can build memories with your immediate family.

Sounds like my in laws honestly, but only difference I live with mine. It’s really tough but unfortunately my husband doesn’t see the wrong. They overstep in everything, the MIL even told my boys to call her mama like ummm no they have me in there mum not you. It’s like she always wants them, and tells everyone we can go anywhere or do anything the boys need us. But tbh they are not needed at all

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