Names

Ive really been stuggling feeling any connection to this baby, compared to my LG at this same stage i feel the total oppsite, ive been trying so much to help with creating a bond. I found out im having a boy so i strated to try think of names, i looked atbmy list of boys names i had for my LG before i found out she was a girl and only 1 stood out that i still liked, i stupidly told a friend whos son happens to have this as his middle name (bare in mind hes in his 20s) she started going funny with me and ignoring me for daya then she came out and said that why i camt use my own imagination and thinking of this name pissed her off! It really upset me and i feel ive just gone backwards in trying to feel some bond with my son, i wouldnt mind but i like that name before i knew it was her sons middle name and now i just have no interest in thinking of names like its the last thing i cant be bothered to do. Anyone else feel stuck?