Partner’s

Yes!!!!

Hell yeah! I've been through this, he's even pointed at her and stated 'this is your fault' 'we could be having a nice easy life but instead we have her' 😭 never helps out, always criticising and moaning about how we don't have time together but never does anything with her

@incognito yes it is alot, especially when he isn't helping at all. Sounds like he's making any excuse not to be in the house @Leonie wow that's soo cruel, should have told him if you know where the door is because baby comes first

Yes. Going out once a month or so would be sufficient.

Men 🙄

@Leonie I’m sorry you’re going through this, it’s quite toxic. It’s not long until your baby fully understands what he means. Awful.

@Kay oh he's gone, I will not have my daughters confidence and development affected my that kind of toxicity

Mine doesn’t go out with friends but is regularly away with work; either staying one or two nights in London or longer trips between 1-3 weeks abroad. I obviously don’t hold the work trips against him but I don’t feel he understands or appreciates what it’s like being home all day and night with three kids aged 1/8/12. When he’s home he will regularly put the 8 yr old to bed but that’s very quick; he’s bathed the 1 year old once and put him to bed twice. I love the one year old to bits but sometimes feel a little suffocated as I don’t get any time alone.

Yeppppp