I need some insight
On divorce. I think my husband/partner of 13 years is a narcissist. Right now my main concern is who the courts will favor when it comes to our newly built home. I am the primary caregiver of my 3 children. I've buckled down over the last few months and now have two jobs - one full time and one part time. I get my kids to and from school/the bus. I make sure they get to all of their appointments. My husband has become so irresponsible with money that I had to get my own bank account. Right now I can afford my home on my own but it's getting him out that will be the hardest part. I have a support system and I'm scared but ready to move forward. Looking for some advice I'm in Wisconsin.
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I agree an attorney will give you the best advice. If I could take a guess, it’s based off of whose name is on the deed/loan, if you guys have a prenup, and other legal and financial factors.
@Anima🪷 Both of our names are on it 😔
That’s a tough situation. Only IMO, try to work it out with him first, as in asking him if he’d be willing to take his name off etc, or you buy him out (if you still owe). Expensive, but attorney fees and court litigations are going to be just as costly. BUT, if they work in your favor sometimes they make the “loosing” spouse pay the others legal fees. But I’m just a pro-keep the courts out of it type of person. But it may be unavoidable. I hope the best for you.
You should have a consultation with a divorce attorney to discuss all of the details.