Partner wants time to himself

We’re supposed to be going out tonight as a family but my partner has decided he wants to spend the evening by himself playing on the Xbox rather than being with me and my son. I think my relationship is over! He argued with me saying I always have time to myself and have 3 hour baths. I work full time and look after our 9 month old. My only time I ever get on my own is when I have a bath that’s my escape and I maybe spend 30 minutes in the bathroom to escape. Me and my son are now shut in my bedroom and feel we cannot go out of here. We only have a small flat and he’s taken over the lounge with his Xbox. I feel so angry I don’t know if to scream or cry. He paints the picture to everyone friends and family he’s a wonderful person and always cares for us but this isn’t the case at all 😢 I don’t know if to fight for our family or walk away.
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My hubby stop playing when we got pregnant I think he play once when our son was 15 months and he starts sleep better but honest he doesn't have time for that. He watch tv but like I said when small one sleep. We both work he full time/ hard physical work but still when he back home ( of course after his toilet 🤣 ladies they all same with that . And men need 30 min switch from work to home life - I read somewhere that ) after that he runs after our toddler. The best way to improve this situation is talk through the issue or put him in the same situation you are so he finds out how looks to be you for a day or two. What I did I was I'll and hubby care for everything 2 days. Now I'm doing driving licence 😵‍💫 I hate driving. But we talk and he said how much easier will be when I can run shopping with small one instead wait for him and we all go. I agree that he is right life will be so much easier.

2 weeks after guess who was nicely ask to run for shopping with our toddler 🤣 he come back in 25 min sweating child crying no shopping same evening was discussion if I fresh driver will be able to handle this , and we agree I will be going by myself and they stay home. Be smart don't argue he wants to play ok maybe a bit later we miss you , after small one goes sleep you can play how long you want ( he be tired in the morning not you) Give him alternatives ( yes you will use same methods with your child) if that won't help and he be selfish you will know what to do. I show my hubby how looks my day when he works and he is very helpful. We all need rest sometimes but you guys need to work out this together

The way I would be sending the baby in there to cause chaos 😂😂

Why can't you and your son still go out? I would! Fuck him, do what you had planned!

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