Do you find it annoying when people purposely go OTT with presents for your kids?
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Yes it annoys me too, my house has only so much room for toys
She’s probably excited about you having a baby. I think she was just trying to do something nice. Does she show love through gifts because I do and when my older nephew and nieces were born they used to get a sack full each from me but I didn’t expect anything back x
The amount of presents my boys get is just mad. Its not that im not grateful or that i don't appreciate the love people clearly have for my kids, but uh. So much stuff. One present is enough. And if you want to do more, one present and money into their savings is best.
@Kirsty yes totally agree! It’s more that we’d already had the discussion about not having much space and family already buying so much. I have a small 2 bed with no storage. It’s so overwhelming! And she knows this
very weird
No I love it I’m grateful less I have to shell out when this occurs 🫠
I love gifting for anyone! I like to gift things that people love and will use not just stuff and it can be easy to go overboard. What I receive back is never irrelevant! I hope your friend is the same
Hopefully it’s all things that can be utilized in a way that isn’t overwhelming
If you agreed to spend X amount and she went over then don’t feel shit. Maybe giving is her love language and she just wants to show you how much you and your child mean to her. It doesn’t mean she expects it back.
she didn’t do it to make you feel like shit, probably j couldn’t help herself and gift giving seems like a love language for her. i wouldn’t be annoyed, i would be super appreciative and maybe next year you go all out for her and her kids