Partners phone

What are your thoughts on your partner or 8 years being secretive about their phone for the entirety of the relationship. And the one time you flip about it you’re almost wrestling over the phone and he won’t let you look at it without him holding onto it? Am I paranoid? He’s making me feel paranoid. He says it’s his phone and I have no right to look through it. He never wants to look through mine. I just think it’s odd he won’t ever let me look at it. And say I’m holding his phone in my hand to use his Apple Pay I can tell he’s nervous.

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It’s a tough one but in my opinion his phone is his and he is entitled to privacy. Plus he could be worried you will look at his internet history and spoil your Christmas presents. I think there are some double standard re going through phones; if a girl does it it’s ok but if a guy does it, it’s controlling. You either trust him or you don’t, I don’t think going through his phone is going to help x

He’s not bothered about spoiling Xmas presents,he’s not that precious about things like that. He’s been like this for 8 years. When we first got together 8 years ago he went on holiday and cheated on me. I went through his phone infront of him, and I found out. So I guess now I’m always wondering what I’d find.

What exactly are you hoping to find? Why do you feel the need to go through his phone? I have to agree that a phone is someone's private personal property, and if they don't want to share, then that's their right.

If you're wrestling for it YOU are being abusive and essentially attacking him. No this isn't an exaggeration. Imagine if a man was wrestling for a womans phone trying to force her to give it up? Either leave him if you don't trust him or stop being controlling and abusive

Yup he's hiding something.

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