Partner said I’m creepy
My partner told me creepy when I try to igniate (I’ve tried too once when we are on the couch by climbing on top and he pushed me off telling me to get off) then he tried to say he didn’t mean it like that and said I’m just rapey and look like I want another kid in situations when I want to go a second round or that one time I’ve tried (we have already have one child) he dosent get why I’m upset and feel unattractive or embarrassed and thinks I’m being dramatic and it’s a “me” problem. Am I really the one with the problem I just feel so yuck and horrible.
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This is a hard one. The other way round (if a man was climbing on top) would maybeeeee be seen as “rapey”. However without knowing more about your sex life and relationship (which you may not want to share) it’s hard to really know 💕
That is so rude I’m sorry. He could easily say he’s not on the mood.. are you guys married? There’s not a lot of context clearly we don’t know you and your relationship but I really don’t think there’s an excuse for that kind of communication bc that’s just plain mean. I’m never in the mood and we have 3 kids and I’ve never rejected him that brutally… I just say I don’t want to or I’m not in the mood, sorry I don’t have any drive.
sounds like he isl gaslighting u. definitely not a you problem.
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Sorry he has made you feel this way. Have you asked him what it is that you are doing that makes him think that? It sounds like he has a fear of you getting pregnant, but I assume he doesn't mind so much if it's him initiating? Or perhaps he just wants to be in control? That's a him problem, not you. He shouldn't be making you feel this way at all.