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Does anyone else's husband/bf/fiance take hour long showers and hours in bathroom? I'm 5 weeks post partum and my showers are 20 mins long and bathroom time way shorter cause I have visitors (my kids and the cat) in bathroom with me. He's supposedly in shower but yet can open my snapchat? Weird. Idk it's just odd. His phones been going off all hours of the night lately too...like damn 😒. I do everything and yet still not good enough....I give him love and support too and have been having sex with him since I was 2 wk pp. We started the marriage process...we make it official by an Officiant on Christmas eve....somethings telling me not to....I wanna be married but I can't shake this feeling. I have no one to talk to....my friends live miles away...my mom tells me to be quiet and just marry him....idk what to do
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I’m so sorry you feeling this way , also I hope you were ready to have sex two weeks postpartum and not pressure from him cos that’s very early . Mine gets distracted in the bathroom on his phone but I call him and he runs down mind you my LO is 7 months next week so he’s a big boy now . I hope changes for the better but marriage is a big commitment so make your mind up well xx

As far as the bathroom part I haven’t been with a man yet that doesn’t spend hours sitting on the throne. But always trust your gut.

@Justina he tells me to wait if I call him

@Aimee exactly a lot of women say this, I always have to call my man down but he’ll come right away

Trust your gut

What @Shelby said, your intuition is always right. If you feel like something is up then it’s more than likely that something is going on. Don’t push that feeling under the rug, you’re feeling that way for a reason.

Yes yes... True, trust your 💜 n mind hey but does he have a iphone. U could always try to place his thumb on the sensor... Wile he's sleeping 😪 n open his phone 🤳📱 with out him knowing, it worked for me back in the day. But I never ever found anything.. Good luck 🤞

@Brenda no android

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