RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS

My boyfriend/ babydad said he feels i should move out and get myself together which i agree he has been taking care of me first told me focus on my degree then the more i try he says im not worried about our child only worried about myself because i want to go to school , hes a good guy but very verbally disrespectful when mad and doesn’t like the fact that im a very chill person don’t really support me on my journey first he was excited but now that i passed my exam he said “ i dont care i have my own things to worry about” its constantly the same stuff he says i never helped him but i helped him plenty of times just not as much as hes helped me so ig it doesnt matter lol i have the baby 24/7 i cant work like he can , before he was making good money it was never a issue he would use my car to make money and etc but ig since the bills got bigger in a newer home its worse i definitely understand that but dont want this to be too long i feel like this break is going to become more than just a break i feel like he just couldn’t wait for me and dont support me at one point i thought he did but i dont think he want me to do better he suggested i get a job and get an apartment so i can “see how life is “ lol like i dont know life is hard lol i said im finishing school and going get my degree either way , he rather me waste a year struggling (knowing CNA dont pay worth shii and trucking companies discriminate women so its hard for me to find a job )rather than getting my degree , now that I WAS ACTUALLY DOING GOOD in school had a year to go he quit on me and i feel i dont really need to come back i feel once i get right i should never go stay in his house ,that WE bought again lol idk and it was just too toxic i was always chilling trying to get closer to god he always started arguing with me about the billsand how im no help meanwhile i have our daughter 24/7 barely any help i tried explaining that but it never got through his head i feel we dont really need to be in a relationship i feel he will NEVER change tbh

Show your support

Show him what it’ll cost to sent baby to childcare. Also, do you anyone to lean on so you can finish your degree?

If he talks to you like that all the time, I’d want to leave anyway

If you bought it together and are married you’re entitled to half of it

@Julia he knows about child care he pays when i cant like financially he’s excellent but verbally and etc not so good and no we aren’t married i just let him have it because 1 im not in the position also i feel we were going to have issues and i didn’t want to be stuck with anything i wasnt ready for and yes my mom ill watch her while i finish school, he gets mad for having to pay child care but i cant depend on anyone to watch her i barely can work but i know i can depend on my mom

@Julia also the land is family owned property lol i wanted no parts plus i rather get my dream home once im ready

So it’s your family property? Wait don’t watch your child or do you sent to daycare?

@Julia no its his families property and he works offshore so hes never home cant get help from his mom if i do it never lasts long my mom lives hours away but im moving near my mom so i can get help and finish for my degree

@Julia she was going to daycare also after the help didn’t work out

I think its best we stay separate i dont think i want to keep dealing with certain things anymore and i understand hes tired of waiting on me to get myself together but its like wow this time its actually confirmed and he just wont help i think its intimidating that soon ill be doing great in life not needing him

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