Marriage is broken
I’m here just to get this out of my chest cause I feel I need to scream but I don’t wanna scare my babies.
My husband we’ve been together 8 years and I’m 6 months postpartum staying home taking care of the kids all day he goes to work and works a lot but he is working in something he supposedly likes right. Well today we were having issues all day he was basically being a mean ass** all day and right now he just told me he is mad because I stayed 30 minutes sleeping in this morning while he was doing breakfast and that he wanted to have breakfast all of us together like family but this morning when I went down he was so rude basically kicked me out of the kitchen and gave me attitude my response was I feel I deserve to sleep in 30 more minutes after waking up like 3 times to take care of our baby and feed him while he was sleeping very well in peace and he said he wakes up every day to work and that’s more than enough apparently. I’m so fu** tired like I do everything he does nothing I wash, clean, cook, fold our clothes, take care of the kids and still take care of all house administration I’m always making sure payment are made on time , checking our finances and making sure everything is good and it seems to me I never do enough he complains if he does not have dinner made when he comes, he complains if I don’t praise him enough, he complains if we don’t make sex, he complains if I joke with him , he complains if I get mad it seems everything I do is bad. I’m tired I need a long vacation right now I don’t feel nothing I feel angry but nothing else towards him I’m just so tired of all this bs.
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All the best mama! I'm still exhausted almost 3 years in with my first and an 8 month old too. Its tough we just meed to focus on keeping it together for oursepves and the littles ones and also trying to keep the relationship going its tough. If you need to chat, feel free to message me. Everything will be okay! Take care of yourself. We are stronger than we give ourselves credit for🤍
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One of, if not the hardesr times a couple with have is after having children. Trying to go about the new way of life and the baby/babies and being exhausted, working. Trying to juggle it all. Its so stressful and hard. Each party feels as though theyre not being heard and it creates more of a divide than that which has been created by the new addition to the family, Its a really hard time. Youre exhausted. He's exhasuted. Both feel like the other has it easier. Best thing to do right now is try to work together. Communicate more as calmy as possible and work toward being better for eachother and for your baby. Communicate about your needs. What ypu need him to do and why youre sleeping in. It may seem obvious to you but they somehow always meed to be told anyway. Both parties definineed to work on being kind, listening, communicating, loving, and taking care of youserselves as well as eachother in this new time youre in. Its all a rollercoaster which should be taken one day at a time