I feel it's a simple test. It shouldn't be an issue. But if it is I personally would cancel
You're not wrong
Personally I wouldn’t go if she doesn’t get tested.
Definitely not wrong! I would do the same. If she doesn’t want to then I would avoid socializing. It can be hard because I’m sure she would get upset but it’s good to keep your boundaries.
She watches my niece and nephew often as well as my daughter