Community Posts, Tips & Support on Labor & Birth

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Northside Delivery

Hey ladies 👋🏾 is there anyone who is delivering or delivered at Northside and had a black OBGYN?

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York Hospital C-Section

I am almost 37 weeks and baby is lying breech so I am being booked in for a c-section at around 39 weeks - does anyone know how long it usually takes for the date to come through? Also if anyone could share their experience of a c-section at York hospital that would be great - it wasn’t my plan A so I am trying to ...

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Circumcision queries

My boy is 3.5 months now and we are going to have him circumcised. I am really scared about the recovery and the pain he must feel. Any positive experience from anyone will ease my mind hopefully. Also how long was the recovery period in your case and the aftercare you did plz. Thanks for the help!

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Swimming

How soon after a c section can you go swimming?? I’m 6 weeks pp now and I don’t know how long I should wait

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Midwife

Hey mums/mums to be, I have a midwife appointment tomorrow and would like to ask for an elective c section, but I'm not sure how to correctly ask for one. This is due to personal reasons and family related birth problems. Has anyone got any tips, or were you just straight up? Thank you, From an anxious mum to be...

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Stem cells

Has anyone stored their baby's stem cells ?? I am a bit confused between cells4life and future health biobank. Has anyone used their service and how's the experience?? I am looking for the option of storing cord blood and cord tissue

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Phlegm

I’m 22 weeks and only just started having the worst phlegm ever, is it normal😫😫

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C section scar

1 week since my section and took my dressings off and stitches out today. Unsure on how it’s supposed to be looking by now, is this healing the way it should be?

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Big baby and small birth canal?!

Hey guys!! Last Thursday at my 39+2 appointment I was told baby girls head is too big to fit in the birth canal so she refuses to drop (I’ll be 40w tomorrow on my due date) they have a scheduled NST at 9:30am.. could they be making a decision to do a c-section or induce?? They’ve never scheduled me so early for an a...

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Can I asked to be induced before my due date?

I’m 39 weeks + 3 days my due date is 1st November and I’m in AGONY I have sciatica and just want baby out! 😭 I asked my midwife if she could do a membrane sweep but because my appointment as to be the day before my due date she won’t do it. I was induced with my first as she was 10 days overdue and I’m scared to…

Incognito
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Is this labour ? What now?

Mucus plug lost around 3 days ago - now bad pains in my flower, bum and bottom of stomach???? How do you know when to go hospital?

Incognito
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St Thomas London - elective

Hello ❤️ I wondered whether anyone on here has had an elective at St Thomas - London. I am 36 weeks today, and have been booked in for a virtual pre-assessment tomorrow. I just wondered if anyone has had one of these so I know what to expect (was surprised virtual owing to the need for swabs etc but can only assume ...

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Is Stoke Mandeville ok??

I’m due to give birth at Stoke in Feb, but made the mistake of reading the hospital report as the maternity care is rated as ‘requires improvement’. It’s got me worried and I’m wondering if I can / should switch to another hospital. Has anyone else switched? Any good / bad experiences at Stoke M or Milton Keynes?

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99 Centile Baby?!

Should I be worried? I know estimates can be off, but is this baby going to destroy my pelvic floor? Should I be asking about a potential elective c section? Is it too late? For context, both my partner and I are small to average heights and weights. So this giant baby is particularly worrying. Should I ask to be t...

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C section questions for the consultant

I have my consultant appointment on Wednesday as I’m electing for a c section, what questions should I be asking?? X

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Mat leave

How long are you taking?

Incognito
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Waters breaking

Anyone had their waters break naturally? I woke up this morning with a light gush of fluid and my bump feels really squished. I’m being seen at my local hospital at 3:30pm. What’s the protocol if my waters have gone? I’m so in the dark about this

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Anyone waiting for spontaneous labour with no interventions?

Currently 41+1 and still waiting for my LG. Is anyone still waiting for spontaneous labour. The uncertainty is making me so anxious. I want to meet her so bad but I’m trying to avoid any intervention as I did intervene with my first and ended up with an emergency c section. Looking for positive stories and others on...

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Where did you receive prenatal care / deliver?

I’m switching my insurance and I’m curious if anyone has experience with Atrium CMC Main, or Novant Presbyterian, and what y’all think about each! I’m pregnant with my first and we just moved to Charlotte last year so I don’t know a ton about either one. If anyone has a midwife they loved, let me know! Also for a b...

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Vagina birth after c section

Has anyone has a vaginal birth after having a c section? I’m due with my second in February and I was to have a natural birth but also want to be a realistic about having another c section if needed!

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