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Depression

I think I may have Post natal depression… is there a service in Eastbourne that I can reach out to or does it have to be through my doctor?

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Separation anxiety. 9 months. Helppp

The days times I can cope with but allll night. What are you all doing with the separation anxiety?! I need tips

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Behaviour/tantrums

So my little one is almost 4. Her behaviour and attitude has changed a lot. She's having these meltdown that's out of control and I don't know what to do. She used to listen and understand when I say no or not now, she walk away or ask again later. Now she throws herself on the floor screaaaaming yelling and cryi...

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Guilt

This may sound silly, but I feel guilty for feeling like my life is great. I have two beautiful children that I prayed for. The Lord has brought me through so much and now I feel guilty for the peace he is given me. I see some things people experience and I feel guilty for being thankful and joyful through all my ...

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HAIR PULLING

My 6 month old baby pulls my hair non stop I think I’m going bald 🫨.

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Red haired babies

For those of you who have babies with red hair, were they born with red hair or did it develop later?

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Wow

Someone just posted something crazy like this and obviously deleted so quick. Mother’s Day is coming up and this is the vibes some of y’all are on? I just can’t believe you even have TIME to think about this. I’m here thinking about what to make for dinner and activities for my kids and some people are debating w...

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Feel like I can't leave the house as baby is always unhappy out

My baby is pretty happy at home, will amuse herself independently for a while too but she is always unsettled when we leave the house. She will tolerate maybe 15 minutes in the buggy, bassinet or the open seat. She will only go in a carrier if she's asleep. And she will be carried in arms for about 10 minutes max be...

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Clingy

Has anyone else’s baby become so clingy? All she wants is me and it’s so tiring. She used to be happy to independently play and things but now she needs me by her side 24/7. Even when I’m right next to her it doesn’t seem good enough and she stands or sits next to me crying saying ā€œmum mum mumā€. I love that she want...

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Is the intimacy over after kids?

How do you ladies deal with not getting intimacy from partner even after talking about it? Have you given up? I have a toddler and I’m 7 months pregnant and 5 years of marriage and that seems to be my life where my hormones are raging for intimacy

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Hair loss?

I had my last baby almost 19 months ago and I swear all of my hair still hasn’t grown back in yet. Does anyone else have this problem? My messy buns are not what they used to be…

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How do we all make time for ourself

Hey mamas I’m 19 with a 4 month old baby girl I’m having trouble trying to find time for myself to shave do my hair and make myself look presentable my babygirl always looks so nice in her cute little outfits bathed everyday but I can bearly do it for myself some time I go 2 days without a shower or not even getting...

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Braxton hicks

I’m 37 weeks, am I the only one that hasn’t had braxton hicks contractions?

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Episiotomy ladies!

Hey ladies, I’m 6wks postpartum tomorrow and had an episiotomy. The midwives have checked lots of times & i’m healing well with no infections whatsoever. However i still have some stitches left and also feeling very dry and ā€˜open’ - has anyone else found this? It definitely looks wider than it used to and feels ...

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I hate my partner

He’s treated me like garbage for 13 years I can’t do it anymore. Mental physical emotional and financial abuse for years. I think I might be pregnant with our second baby I’m not sure yet

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3 year old hair thinning

My 3 year old son is half black and half white. He’s always had great hair that’s been fairly easy to maintain. We’ve stuck to a regular schedule of shampoo and conditioner every other day. Combing while hair is wet and putting leave in and a bit of mousse in for styling. We don’t braid his hair or keep it in any ti...

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Toddler hair

My almsot two year olds hair is falling off, when I brush it after a shower or in the morning to do her hair. Is this her baby hair falling off or is is something else. I already messaged her Pediatrician but she might not reply until Friday. Has this happen to anyone else’s toddler ?

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Why are older people so stubborn?!?!?

I’m thinking back on the last week with my MIL. 1) why was she so stubborn that she wouldn’t even go to the hospital when EVERYONE was telling her. We had to send an ambulance. She wouldn’t be so bad off if she has listened to everyone who was telling her FOR OVER A WEEK that she needed to go 2) she didn’t want t...

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Tinnitus and new born????

Hi I’ve been experiencing tinnitus and have a 11 day old baby, I’ve googled and it comes up with symptoms of anxiety or depression? Anyone else experiencing this, I feel like I’m losing my mind and keep thinking I have all sorts everytime I google, I’d it possibly to trick yourself into having a mental Illness?

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Postpartum Hair Loss

I’m 8 weeks postpartum and I’ve started to lose my hair (in concerning amounts)! Does anyone have recommendations on anything that helped them with this?

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