Community Posts, Tips & Support on Mental Health

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Anyone else struggling to find joy at this stage of their lives?

Don't get me wrong, I am so grateful for my little girl and my partner. I know I am lucky as friends of mine are struggling to get pregnant and have children. I'm very grateful for everything, I'm just not happy.. I feel this pressure of working 50 hours a week while taking care of our little girl, then the constan...

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I have a massive issue with self acceptance.

I don't know how to love myself...they say that how we feel about ourselves is reflected in how people are treating you and I believe it's true but i can't accept myself...

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Back to work

I go back to work tomorrow, I don’t even know how I’m going to not be with my little love all day. I’m so so sad.

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Feeling helpless until baby arrives

As days approach til my baby due date is anyone else feeling hopeless or tired of waiting ? I’m always so sad and just find myself frustrated or telling myself I’ll only feel better when the baby is here, I’m getting so impatient and it’s affecting my mood

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What should I do with these feelings

I feel overstimulated, spiritually exhausted, guilty about feeling all this way and not being happy and perfect with my kids. What should I do with these feelings? I need time for myself then I feel terrible about wanting that. I want to be a wife, not just a mother. I work FT so I just have been an employee and a m...

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Any stepmoms?

Hopefully, I can connect with other stepmoms who can help me navigate this, talk things through, and offer some guidance. How do you manage it? How do you stay positive when it’s affecting you so much?

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20 weeks emotions

Anyone else just feeling super emotional and stressed about little things!! Trying to go car shopping today as need a 5dr car instead of 3dr and now I’m back home it’s just wiped it out of me my mood is like a zero and just feel so alone even though my partner is amazing

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Post partum rage

How did everyone come out the other end?? Is there medications? Talking therapy’s? I want to know everyone’s positive stories… in the depths ☹️

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Self image

I’m struggling with my self esteem my body changes to the point of no return nothing fits me anymore I hate looking at my self in the mirror

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How do you do it? LOST

Don't even know where to start. I'm in my upper 30s and have a 2.5 year old. No stable income (looking for employment), single and living with my mother. I am so lost in life. I don't know what's up or down. I need to do better for myself and daughter. I just feel like I need help in every avenue of my life. Feeling...

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Mum friends

Seriously needing some mum friends feel like I never do anything and my baby is missing out. Have a 4 month old little boy 🩵

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Anxiety

I have high functioning anxiety and can’t take my meds. Any suggestions on how to control it some?

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Just expressing…

Currently 7 weeks today. I just became a single expecting mother-to-be last Friday. No matter how much I talk to family and friends I still feel alone. I don’t want to continue picking up the phone an expressing my feelings when nothing will change at all. At the end of the day, I never expected it to be like this. ...

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Believe in Yourself

Good morning everyone! I’m an accounting professional in Nashville, TN and recently started a new job this week. I was fired from my job back in September and really felt discouraged and disappointed. One thing I’ve always been is a hustler, but it took a while to believe in myself again. I lost a job I was miserabl...

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Friendships changing.

As a 30 something woman I’ve lived a bit. Got 2 kids and had some decent jobs and moved around but also got into some debt which I’m slowly paying off. Im not working (by choice) and live modestly and I’m happy with that. I’m not materialistic at all and I’m much better at budgeting than ever before.. I have 2 f...

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Does anyone practice gratitude? Heard a little about it and thought I’d like to try it but wasn’t sure how.

Is it best to say it out loud or in your head? Can you repeat the same things or should you try to look for new things. Do you do it morning or night. Any tips appreciated. Thanks ladies 🙏

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Staying indoors

I really struggle staying indoors all day with my LO. And realistically we always go out even if just for a walk round the block. Today we've got an important parcel coming at unknown time (they can't leave in a safe place) so we can't go out. Is this feeling of having to get out the house every day normal? I know m...

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Lonely

Feeling very lonely past few days, I’m a single mum and it’s just always me and baby never really bothres me but past few days just feel really down

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Being a mom is hard

Sometimes it’s hard being a mom especially with limited support around you. We don’t have family that is accessible or willing to be there and it is hard to make mom friends. It is hard to see other moms who have such a great village around them and to watch them support each other. It makes me feel like something i...

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Communication

Hey guys, I’m getting extremely worried and don’t know if it’s hormones or my existing mental health issues causing the overthinking/ stress. But has anyone felt super lonely and like you always have to reach out if there’s going to be any communication between someone- especially between my partners family. I’m...

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