Community Posts, Tips & Support on Mental Health

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I feel so lonely

Hello, I just feel so lonely and alone. I’m so tired of doing everything alone with no fun in life. Everything is on me, what we do today, where we go, on top of being a single parent. I have no family or friends to do anything with and it’s really getting to me 😢

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Missing my old life

Anyone else grieving their old body/life. Don’t get me wrong I’m so ready to meet my baby girl and beyond great full for her. But me and my husband are so young and I miss our fun days, I don’t miss the drinking or the smoking I just miss being able to do things with him and not feel sick or be in pain. We’re curren...

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Hobbies?

My husband and I are currently separated. I’m on a journey of recovery due to his unfaithfulness and trying to work on my relationship with God during our time apart. I’ve come to realize I have no idea what I like to do. I’m a mom to a 2 yo and I’m currently pregnant with my second child. I’ve been married for ...

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Feeling depressed

I feel like a failure.. my Lo who is almost two barely speak anything has no communication with me like when I say sit down or wait or come here nothing Runs like crazy have no sense of fear falls 100 times repeating by falling by the same way I see other kids improving bit by bit But mine lo nothing I feel lik...

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Alone

I'm feeling a bit isolated in my love for the outdoors. It's tough finding friends who share the same passions nearby. While my husband joins occasionally, it's clear he's not as into it & just trying to give me the company I'm seeking. I deeply appreciate his efforts, but it's not quite the same. Most days, I end u...

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Single mum boredom

Any other single mums out there so bored of an evening. Don't get me wrong I'm totally happy on my own but my nights are so dull! Used to be an army wife and the friends I made were amazing we basically lived together were together all the time but I've moved and left that life now and it's totally lonely sometimes,...

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🫶🏼

Just a reminder. You’re beautiful, make sure you tell yourself that. You made a human(s) from SCRATCH. Don’t let anyone take that away from you. I’m always here to listen and support YOU 🩶

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Anyone else?..

I’ve felt like this for a long time but it’s gradually getting worse.. I do suffer with depression and anxiety and other mental health conditions too, but I literally feel like my brain is melting or degrading each day I wake up. I get NO pleasure, happiness, excitement or stimulation from absolutely anything or any...

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Is anyone else not feeling quite themselves still?

Not sure what I mean by this. I don’t think I’m down or depressed but I just don’t feel like myself. Anyone else able to elaborate or normalise this feeling 18 months into motherhood?

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Not feeling as connected

Hey mamas. I’m feeling like a terrible mom because i am 9 weeks pregnant with my second and do not feel attached or connected to this baby at all. I know that sounds awful. We are happy and excited but I felt so much more connected with my son when I was this early on. Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced thi...

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This feels rigged / impossible

I can’t get child care cause I don’t make enough money, but I can’t make enough money because I don’t have child care!!!! Lmfao I’m actually so lost and frustrated and feeling defeated. I feel like us as women need to create a little group where we take turns watching eachothers children so mama can go out and do wh...

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Feeling lonely

Does anyone else feel quite lonely? I’ve always been pretty happy in my own company and obviously I now have my baby for company but sometimes the days can feel so long. It feels a bit like I’ve been forgotten about by everyone. Family are retired but make very little effort to see us unless I arrange it with them a...

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Feeling like a failure

Just need some place to vent tbh. Me and my fiancée are splitting up and I’m having to move back in with my parents with my 2 year old. I feel like a loser, I feel like why did I ever get myself in this situation? Lots of mental and physical abuse and I just can’t stay any longer. I’m also a stay at home mom so I ha...

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Hey, any single Mums in London? Fancy meeting up for coffee, drinks or both?

My friends are all taken and it gets lonely, anyone in the same boat? How it everyone finding being a single Mum? How does everyone cope with keeping on top of things? Xxx

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Why do I feel this way

I live in a really isolated place / small town and there isn’t much to do here unless you have friends which I don’t… Since giving birth 9 weeks I rarely leave my house unless it’s just for errands or my babies grandparents which is a highlight in my life right now! But I’d feel bad going there all the time special...

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sad

i’m almost 7 months pregnant and i always feel sad and lonely. i lost my job recently due to protecting myself against a bully at work which ended me in the hospital for 24 hours. i’m fine and so is baby. i’m anxious about going to working and having ANOTHER baby after already having two with two different men. i’m ...

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Lost myself..

I lost myself in my marriage! I really want to re-discover myself and figure out who I am again. Not just a mum or a wife. I’m in therapy, I’m going to the gym, I’m running, I’m trying to be so present with my children and put my phone down.. but still I feel lost🤷🏼‍♀️ Did anyone go through the same or similar…

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Feeling alone in pregnancy

My due date is in less than a week and lately I’ve been feeling super lonely, I feel like no one understands, everyone has their own priorities and while I understand, I still feel hurt. I’m just super tired and my body is swollen and tbh Idek what I need but no one seems to care. I am worried about how my toddler w...

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Feeling let down/lonely

I am 25 and I had my son who is my first baby in March. Since then my friends have no really bothered with me via visits, calls or even texts. Moved in with my partner 6 months before I got pregnant which is a 45 minute joinery which I completely understand seeing as I live far away now. Had anyone else experience...

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First time mom

I had my son a little under a year and a half ago. I feel like my style never came back. I realized I’ve gained weight again. My clothes don’t fit. And today at work someone said I reminded them of their mom. I was going to like a chill high socks and beat up sneaker look buuuut I guess I missed the mark to be comp...

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