Community Posts, Tips & Support on Mental Health

Honest, unfiltered, and in real-time: what women like you are talking about. Peanut group chats, support, and posts on Mental Health.

Social anxiety

I would love to meet other mamas w social anxiety. Other people can't rely. They think it is like a switch you can just turn on/off or that I'm making it up. My social anxiety is not crazy bad, but it is affecting me. I overthing lot or not think then say something dumb I later regret. Can't be myself.

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Anyone else feeling lonely ?

I am currently 19 weeks + 2 days pregnant. I have a partner that I live with and a dog. I started living in UK about 4 years ago and I moved here to live with my partner as we were previously in a long distance relationship. I don’t have any long term friends or family in UK. We both work, and of course have our nor...

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How do people manage it?

I see you at the end of my tether when it comes to money as a single parent. I have a really well paying job, and my daughter only does three days of nursery a week. I don’t pay for netflix, takeaway coffees, or takeaways. I got rid of my car. I have nothing else to give up! My shower has just broken and I can’t af...

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Feeling like a failure

I’m 38w living in my mom’s place. I’m 23 single baby’s father is no help. I can’t secure housing of my own the market is trash my credit isn’t good because of student loans. They say I make too much for income based but I’m barely making anything and I don’t have maternity leave bc my job is seasonal. I have no frie...

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I don’t want to be here anymore

I just can’t do it. My life has lost its previous spark, I feel drained, I feel tired, I feel lost, lonely, trapped, I want to scream, everything is a chore, Groundhog Day. I just want to get off this train now.

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How do you do it? TEACH ME! 🤣

To those who are DRIVEN, how do you do it? What motivates you? I feel so...meh... I'm on maternity leave (ending soon 😭) but I work in domiciliary care. I should point out that I HATE the concept of work & feel like I'm slaving my life away. But I'm just curious cuz I see a lot of people who are driven & wonder…

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Wishing I had a friend to vent to

Just feeling lonely and hate putting all my issues on my man. Just wish I could make some friends or have someone I can talk to and they not have a motive. Sorry trauma from my exes.

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Anyone else miss themselves?

Don’t get me wrong, I’m so excited to meet my second daughter in a couple of weeks….. But I miss myself so much… I’ve put on so much weight, I haven’t had the confidence to be intimate with my partner for about 6 months, I barely wear makeup anymore because I can’t be bothered….. I just miss wearing what I want, fe...

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Very newly separated. Any tips?

Me and my husband have separated. We tried for 4 long hard years before deciding this is the best way to go. We have 2 children together and the separation isn’t amicable right now. Any tips for coping in the early days? I’m dreading my first weekend without my children. I hate having to see my husband. Having to ...

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FOMO / boredom

Anyone else when they’re on their own in the house get lonely, bored, miss their old life and freedom and get upset :( ?

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Single Mams

Anyone else a single mam and find the nights very tough. I've done all nights on my own anyway but when it's a rough night I get myself worked up. I split with my ex when son was 5 months due to verbal and emotional abuse. My son has been very unsettled for couple weeks and I am worn out

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The weight we carry

It’s Father’s Day and I am cute crying in the kitchen I feel so alone and I keep on reaching out to my husband and he just seen so far away I just wish I could stop crying but I can’t

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I don’t want anymore kids!

Im 25 with a 1 year old and almost every person I talk to say that it’s selfish of me to say I don’t want to have anymore kids because they need to be around other children and it’s not fair to them to be alone. Honestly I could not really care because my pregnancy was shit and I never want to do that again also I’m...

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Panic attacks

How do people deal with panic attacks I have health anxiety and at the moment anything and everything is setting it off I have Crohn’s disease witch don’t help but I’m so fed up of feeling g anxious about my health and that something bad is going to happen to me 😔

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Do you ever regret having a baby?

I don’t particularly miss anything about my old life maybe just the freedom? Idk I see all these posts with people obsessed with their child and I just don’t feel that way?

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I had to move out of New York and can’t adapt living here

I’m so depressed I had to move from New York to Rhode Island and it’s horrible. I miss living in New York so much, but our rent was getting so expensive we thought it was going to be better somewhere else but I can’t adapt to living here it’s sad and grey people are very rude food has no seasoning,kids are incredibl...

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Struggling so much right now

Just having a mental block and struggling with almost everything right now😥 feel like I can’t even talk to anyone about it 😞

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Is it just me..

Since becoming a single parent, I don’t see me and my son having a family. I don’t see myself with anyone in the future or even having more kids. I just feel like it’s gonna be me & my son for the rest of mine & his life. I don’t have hope for me with meeting anyone or having a family unit. Does anyone else feel li...

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I’m bored….

Don’t judge but I’m bored of my relationship even though I have an amazing husband. I’ve been married since 21 and now I’m 31 and I feel like I want to talk a break to live alone for a while. I do have two young kids and if I stop him from seeing them everyday then that’s unfair and I can’t stop seeing them. My kids...

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Burnout?

Has anyone else experienced this as a first time mom? I need someone to talk

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