My baby doesn't like me anymore 😢

Recently i've been telling my little one off because shes been really difficult to deal with since turning 1. She has such an attitude and refuses to co-operate, ever! I know i should be more patient but honestly it has all become too much for me and i've been struggling with my mental well being for a while and i have raised my voice on a number of occasions and told her off. Now i feel like she hates me - she loves her dad (he's a lot more patient with her because he's hardly with her, whereas she's with me all the time so i lose my rag) and when hes around she refuses to come to me and she even cried when i took her to bed but she was fine when her dad did! Its made me feel so sad i've been crying thinking have i messed up?? Is the damage done and will she hate me forever now and see me as the mean one?? I hope im wrong, it's been so deflating and upsetting me a lot. Can't help but think i've messed our relationship up for good.