you need to ask yourself what does he bring to the table? nothing! do more for yourself and your child
It honestly Sounds like to me weed comes first! The more money he has the more Money he will spend on weed. Why can he not put a little aside each month so you two can have a nice day out? To be honest it sounds like to me he is just Lazy!!! Sometimes you need to have nice date nights out together to keep the relationship alive…. If he hasn’t got money at the moment fair enough but he could always be saving little by little each month and show you he’s actually trying
Wow. The still livin wit his mom and irresponsibly spendin his money would be enough to make me leave. Girl u should get out. He sounds like a man child who’s refusin to grow up.
I wouldn't have gotten pregnant by someone like this but if I was in your shoes, I'd respectfully move on. He does nothing for you financially, physically, emotionally, romantically. What are you really losing by leaving?
i think i’m staying more to see if he’ll change and also i don’t want my kid to be like me and grow up without a father
Girl I get not wantin ur child to have to grow up wit out their father but sometimes its for the best bcuz its betta to be wit out their dad than to have a father that doesn’t help u out or do for ur child. If he’s gonna disrespect his mom, then think bout it…what does that say bout his character??
He showed you his true colors more than once. How much more proof do you want?
That's totally fair, but honestly a child is so much better off having no father than a shit one. Think about the kind of role model he's going to be, can you honestly say you'd be happy for your child to grow up to be like him? Sounds like he won't change, do yourself a favour and put you and baby first, run like hell and don't look back!
No courting , dates , outtings , romance is a deal breaker for me
Im assuming hes young hes gonna have to grow up but thats good that your acknowledging it and holding him accountable
he sounds terrible! if i was you i would get out asap!