How much more can I take!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I’m so sorry your going through this I went thru the same thing with my ex it’s no fun

Sorry to hear you are unhappy , i have been there and the best to do is leaving !! Be happy alone ♥️

@Angelica how do I get over it .. I was trying to to stay for my son I can’t do it ..

@Stessy imma have to

Guys my happiness is more important than this .. it’s pushing my anxiety all way up the roof

He needs to address his insecurities and not take it out on you. Guys are going to always look and try but that doesn't mean you care for their attention.

@Marie ⭐️ thank u I have caught him numerous time a on instagram and have not thrown it in his face not one time .

Leave. His insecurity is not your responsibility

@Jessika you're welcome! I don't understand guys who use apps like that. Men don't have time for that sorta thing. More a boy thing to me.

Big hugs, mama. I'm sorry to say but he sounds super controlling and is therefore unhealthy for you, your kids and within himself. Seems clear you either need to leave or instill some major boundaries. If you choose to stay, I think you need to make therapy a non negotiable for him and maybe try couple's therapy. But it sounds to me like you don't want to be with him. Honour yourself and your kids in however you proceed 🩷

Your partner is very insecure and controlling. Until he recognises he has problems and he’s willing to sort out his own issues, you two won’t last much longer. If he works on himself, then you can support him through it. But it’s not your responsibility to do the therapeutic work for him or fix him. Only he can do this. I completely understand why your fed up with his behaviour towards you. I would be too. But you do have a choice; Your partner genuinely recognises that he has issues and he’s willing to get some help for his issues and his controlling behaviour…or you leave him. Your peace of mind is important. The best apology anyone could give you is change - change within themselves, change in their behaviours, change in the way they treat you, change in the way they speak to you, change in the way they view themselves and change in how they show up in the world. Change is massive and not an overnight fix, but it’s possible only if the person wants to change.

@Laura thank u

@Monique omg thank u so much for the advice

Girl, I'm your friend. Text me any time 🙂 He is absuing you. And he is trying to break you from the inside. So he can have complete control over you. He wants you to be weakened and codependent on him for supply. He is trying to break your sense of confidence and safeness within yourself. He is very dangerous. You should definitely check out this as soon as possible. It will only get worse. Love does not hit. Love does not hurt. A confident man will uplift his woman to respect the ground she walks on. He will want her to have healthy friendships and go out to enjoy her life. Not try to make u ur own enemy. And make u gaslit your into believing you're doing everything wrong. You must be doing something right if a man stops and stares. It's because he sees a BEAUTIFUL woman that GOD created. Leave this insecure man.

This is DV, you need to safely leave this person!

Thank u @Zamire I will dm u my number

Yes I've been through the same. Couldn't talk to men. Not even a "good morning" or women for that matter. Phoning/texting while I am out having fun shopping. Checking my receipts. Having to hide the fact I have money. Constantly putting me down. Criticism over cooking and housework (he went ballistic over a cup I left on the draining board once) One day I had enough. I was 21 with a 9 month old baby and I didn't want to live like that. Luckily I had savings so I secured a private let in my hometown near my mum and broke up with him after I had moved all my stuff in. My son and I had a great time together we were as thick as thieves. Now I've got a 10 week old boy 😊

@Susan that’s totally not right I’m glad u left for the better