Thank you, I’m struggling so bad x
so obviously you need to do what works best for you. we used to have a very similar schedule to you however we now have a really good routine where myself & my partner get so much more sleep. please don't think i'm being judgmental but i would try not to give your daughter a nap any time after 3:30pm and try an earlier bedtime. my son has his first nap at 9-10am and then another at 2 - 3:30pm and then bet at 8:30 our routine isn't perfect but it means we get the choice of an early night. this is just my advice like i said you need to do whatever is best for you but i hope this helps in some way xx
Sorry to comment on an old post, but I just wanted to say - Remember the important thing is that your routine works for YOU. People used to judge me for my son going to sleep at midnight, but he got his 12 hours, and I still got to do my work and housework! Xx
Build a routine from what you already do, so write down those times and try to stick to them, add in when you eat etc. Also check on huckleberry about the sleep schedule at one as that might give some pointers about when your toddler should be napping/how long