I Hate My Sister In Law

So my husbands brother, (my brother in law) is about to get married to a girl I can’t stand… (let’s call her B) she is extremely loud, rude, obnoxious and our personalities just don’t mesh well at all. Whenever we are at a group event all she does is talk about herself… Recently they are getting married (in July) and B’s parents are giving them their 600k home and all she now talks about is trying to start a family. My husband and I just bought our home in this economy and work extremely hard to keep up with the high house bills all while we are dealing with infertility for 2 and a half years.. Last night we went to a family gathering and for hours straight she bragged about the house, having babies and they are already trying and the fact she will “get pregnant before I do) Honestly it made me so sick and angry that she obviously wants to be insensitive and rude about my sensitive journey. (The brother in law is no help) and my husband has been extremely good to me about all of this. I’m just already at my wits end and they arnt even married yet.. I am in need of advice on how to protect my mental health.

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I wish I could tell you to sock her in her face but that wouldn’t be quite appropriate. I am sorry tho, I can imagine how that makes you feel hearing that ❤️‍🩹 I would hope your husband puts in his two cents since it is his brother. He doesn’t have to beef with him but he can tell his brother to ask his soon to be wife to stop with the smart remarks

Does she know about your fertility issues? That makes her a very crass and insensitive person if she does. Having said that, folks can be crass and insensitive about fertility stuff all the time - it’s just a lovely cherry on top that you have to deal with when you’re desperately trying to conceive… *sigh* People suck so hard. Anyway, you can’t control other people’s behaviour, you can only control your own. I say block this annoying bitch on social media, avoid gatherings where she’s going to be present, stay out of her way - protect your mental health. If anyone asks, just say her constant fertility chat makes you uncomfortable. Maybe she’ll eventually get the message.

Unfortunately I have been very open about it the whole family knows, I don’t expect people to walk on egg shells though.. but this… this was too much from her

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