Third miscarriage in a row.

I just keep going between being completely gutted and numb. I had really hoped this would be our rainbow babe. It feels like my body keeps failing me, that I’m failing my husband. He’s so kind and supportive and it just hurts more because I know in my being he’d make an incredible father. We’re close to 30 and it feels like I’m running out of time. Every loss and every year just takes more of my hope away.
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Im so sorry. I dont think you should feel this way and all you need is to be positive! Girl you got this. I just went thru my 4th miscarriage and it is the worst thing ever. It hurts so much but today i woke up hopeful and determined that i will try again. Did you get any tests done?

I’ve have all the regular tests for diabetes, thyroid, autoimmune etc. they found a subseptum in my uterus that they removed after my second loss. I’m currently miscarrying and trying to save as much tissue as I can to send off for testing. They sent off my last miscarriage and found no DNA abnormalities. I started spotting at 5 weeks so they let me start taking progesterone but that doesn’t seem to be the issue either. I think because we’ve had three now I’ll get a referral to a specialist and get genetic testing for myself and husband. I know logically it makes no sense to feel this way about my body and future but it’s so hard to not wonder if it’s my body that’s the issue when they never find anything genetically wrong with the babies. I cannot carry past 6 weeks. I had two MMC with levels still going up and this miscarriage started spontaneously yesterday after getting my levels done that morning (which were still going up normally).

Im so sorry to hear that.. so You were in your 6th week? Did ur doctor do the hysterosonogram test for you? Are you sure this is a miscarriage? Maybe its not maybe you should go get an ultrasound done?

I’m passing large clots and tissue. We had a scan at 5 weeks that showed an empty sac. No pregnancy symptoms. I’m pretty certain it’s another loss.

Inconclusive scan. Showing appropriate gestational sac growth but can’t see fetal pole. Couldn’t really see anything definitive in the sac. Sac is showing 6.4 weeks. I just have no words for the level of emotional whiplash I’m feeling.

So does that mean you’d have to wait a few more weeks???

Probably, I’ll have to wait for a call from the Dr tomorrow to see.

Please do not panic.

Just remember that god has a plan. I just went thru a miscarriage and accepted that its all in gods hands.

Any update sweety?

Dr wants to do a repeat scan next week. Just living in limbo until then 🤷🏼‍♀️ Still getting the odd brown spotting and my only symptom is sensitive nipples. HCG is going up but not doubling, not really looking hopeful.

Im sorry. dont feel that way maybe its all okay :) whats ur hcg atm?

31st 12452 3rd 24810 7th 33498 10th 46906

Ah… whens ur scan?

Thursday morning but I probably won’t get results until Friday

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Im so so so sorry

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I just feel so devastated and angry. I don’t understand why this keeps happening

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