Not feeling loved *includes sex talk*

I am 13 weeks pregnant and almost every to every other night my boyfriend gets in bed and asks for head, i do it, then we have sex. Me on top or doggy style. He hasn’t returned the favor in months and he rarely switches positions but when we first started dating he did it every time and said he enjoyed pleasing me. Well tonight he came in bed and asked for head. I said “can I get some first” his response was “can you do mine first or we can knock em both out at the same time” (implying 69 which he knows i don’t enjoy) and i just didn’t respond and he just didn’t do anything and fell asleep. I have been craving it for months and i’ve told him this before and he just doesn’t care. He seems to only want to please himself.