Right when he wakes up we give milk. Half hour later breakfast. 1 hour- 1 1/2 snack then he goes for a nap. He wakes up, 30-45 mins later lunch and then a hour- 1 1/2 milk again. Takes another nap. Wakes up we do dinner, snack a hour after dinner and then milk at minimum a half hour before bed. He has his water cup always where he can reach it. Sometimes he drinks all the milk other times not so much.
Milk 3 times a day weaning to twice a day, solids as often as she shows interest.
I'm still nursing so my daughter usually nurses 4 times a day - once when she first wakes, before each nap, and before bed. She does breakfast around 8/8:30, lunch around 12, usually a snack around 3:30 or 4, and dinner at 5. If she wants snacks at other times, I'll give them to her, but that's pretty uncommon!
One bottle before bed, sometimes I give him another bottle before his morning nap.
We only give milk with meals now. Sometimes I'll make a smoothie though.