Desperation
My bf is going out for a boys night after work nobody in his family is close to me to hang out or have girls night. I'm 8 months pp I have been wanting to have a girls night or just someone to hang out with nobody in my bf family will hang out with me because there kids are older and I'm a outcasts I don't speak Spanish that well. I'm just desperation that I don't have anyone to hang out with or anyone who I can call when I'm upset or anything I never really had friends growing up. Now I'm seeing how hard it without having a friend or friends. Does anyone let there man have a boys night or something.
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@Sami I don't know it bothers because we don't spend time together and I cried because if his cousin calls he is ready and out the door he always comes home tired and exhausted. I just get upset because I can't make plans without him because he might have plans to go out
@Selena you have every right to be bothered by it. Showing you affection over buddies should be a no brainer. Unfortunately it really may not be for him. Tell him how you feel about it and it needs to change but you can't give him empty threats either. You have to show you are willing to follow through with whatever you sah
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My husband kind of does whatever he wants. Every Thursday he goes out with his friends. Some weeks bothers me more than others but he knows that when I'm irritated with it is the time he stays home and takes care of the kids so I can sleep or just have some time for me