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@Kat he doesn’t make long phone calls or go for long trips. He just spends most of his time away from us but in the house if that makes sense. He goes to the shop alone and I’ve noticed on 2 occasions he’s said that, that he hasn’t actually bought anything back. I have asked and he says he watches videos but I don’t hear any videos playing when I do wake up. There’s no way I could sneak his phone either because it’s never out of his sight, it’s either in his pocket, underneath him or in his hand.
I think because I have such an intense feeling something is going on whether it’s just messaging a woman or entertaining someone in some way, I don’t want to ignore it but I also don’t want to mention it again because of how he reacts and a lot of the time he just says if you’re accusing me you’re probably up to no good yourself (like when would I have the time lol)
Wb when he’s sleeping?
He sleeps with his phone inside his pillow so I wouldn’t be able to get it without waking him up & idk his password either
In my opinion, yall are married. He should offer up his phone if you're feeling insecure. It's very odd that he sleeps with his phone in his pillowcase.
I couldn’t agree more! I just don’t want the argument. I grew up in a very argumentative household and that’s the last thing I want in my house or around my children. I just didn’t know if It was just me being insecure or if other people shared a similar opinion. X
Okay this might sound crazy, flip the pillow case so that the entrance to it is on your side if that makes sense. When he’s asleep wait for him to turn over as far as possible, and in a very deep sleep, and slowly do your best to get it out from the pillow. If that fails, and if he flips the pillow back, question him and outright ask to see his phone. As for the password problem, I find it WILD you don’t know it already but wait for your phone to die and say ‘hey can I borrow your phone real quick I need to Google something / call someone’ If he’s hiding the phone, there’s usually a reason, whether it be another woman or a shit ton of porn, you’ll soon have your answer!
Yes, he’s cheating and or talking to other women online. A tale as old as time. If he’s taking his phone everywhere he goes, sleeping with it under his pillow and being highly secretive, he’s hiding something. You know you can always go to your phone company and pull the phone records. Try this, turn your phone off one of these days and act as if your phone died, then ask him to use his. If he hesitate or gives you an accuse, then that’s a clear indication that he’s hiding something from you. Or if his phone is paired to his laptop or tablet or any other device you can search through that and see what he’s been up to. Smh men are ridiculous!
so sounds like you know exactly what’s going on your intuition is SCREAMING at you right now, You are NOT crazy you are valid all those things he is doing is proof of cheating u don’t need to see it directly , he could be sexting or watching porn and meeting up with women. I PROMISE you he’s doing one of these things maybe all. but before u react to him you need to sit down with yourself analyze your situation, he’s cheating so what are u going to do? Do you have a plan B? Where will u go? and if your planning on staying anyway but u just want the truth just tell him that but let me tell you, it’s NOT worth it you will always feel insecure and hurt it will take more years to get over it then you’ve been together. YOU are enough, YOU are loved , YOU are strong and YOU don’t need that kind of disrespect there are men out there that will LOVE you how u deserve he is not the only cheating fish in the sea.
Does he make phone calls or.have long trips out or anything like that? The fact you've expressed something and he got mad..if be low key trying to find out ehat he is doing..have you asked what he does at those hours? And you're not a mammoth you are pregnant and clearly need some love from your partner! Perfectly normal. Is there a way you could sneak.his phone ..I dont normally say things like that but it does seem suspicious.