Super mom

🫡 I will never understand how a man can complain because they have to hold their child and get mad because the child isn’t siting still while they play call of duty Yet here I am lifting two arcades up and moving them from one from to the next and I’m taking about the arcade Walmart sells (example picture below) Anyways I’m trying to get the house cleaned and baby proofed I feel like I’m the only one that cares and am trying to get any open and exposed Wall outlets repaired and covered (The you can put your hand through the wall because the hole is bigger than the outlet itself) My basement door needs to be fixed and everything because he broke it taking it off so he could put a pool table down there 🤦🏽‍♀️ HE DONT EVEN USE IT HE LITERALLY BRING STUFF HOME AND ITS CLUTTERING THE HOUSE BUT HE COMPLAINS TO ME THAT THE HOUSE IS DIRTY * I did the dishes *swept the floors (living room,kitchen, upstairs bathroom) *mopped the floors * cleaned the counters *got the dryer fixed and washed the clothes *vacuumed the upstairs carpets *steam cleaned the upstairs carpets *found a mini crib for our child because she needed one * moved furniture around *It doesn’t help that he leaves his dirty clothes and toothbrushes all over the place Yes I said toothbrushes because he has more than one and leaves them wherever it’s convenient for him DID IT ALL WHILE HOLDING THE BABY WITHOUT A CARRIER‼️ And I have a carrier but she pissed in it and because our dryer was down I couldn’t dry it so I had to hold her she didn’t want to be in her bouncer either But he can’t play the game and hold her because “it’s too much”

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🫠 oh and he realized I was mad and tried to get the baby from me and I told him no since the game was too important to get off of to pay attention to your own child for one hour

I usually don't say this, but throw the whole man out. You're doing everything anyway. Every person has their own limits, but I would have flipped out by now. At minimum I would stop picking up after him. He can do his own laundry. Pick up his own things. I'd be throwing toothbrushes out that weren't in the bathroom. The Internet would mysteriously break until he helped. He sounds like he needs to grow up a bit. Also, you legitimately do sound like super mom. I have help and I could have never even done close to what you have done. If the dishes and laundry are done and baby has had some naps I take it as a win!

@Kelsey 🫠 no fr and it’s sad because I’ve done it before where I’d leave his clothes where he leaves them and they end up staying their for a month before I give up and take them, and I give her naps but she only sleep for 10 minutes without me being present

I feel the exact same way. Just throw the whole man away. Haha. SELL ALL OF HIS SHIT SIS.

In the bin immediately

Will be so much easier for you on your own by the sounds of it plus he’ll have days where he has her alone and can’t sit on his arse all day and when he does have her you’ll get that ‘me time’

What is this guy bringing to your life?

Girl my man do the same I’m loosing it

@Christie unfortunately it’s his house and he pays all the bills and I make sure everything else is done with the house and I bring in food

@Monica 😮‍💨 imma start with the stupid shit he swears he’ll use soon

Good. My rule of thumb is, if it has no use and has not been touched, thought, of or looked at in 6 months then it goes. I don't throw away. I give away. Give away to families in your neighborhood or at your children's school if they allow it. Some hospitals also accept donated clothes. Shelters you could give away too. I would not give to a Goodwill or any other thrift store that over charges nowadays. Hand out the items to homeless people you see on the streets. Local church.

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