Cluster feeding
My baby girl is 4 days old and tends to cluster feed throughout the night like 12am-7am and it’s really hard on me and BD but especially me as when I wake up to feed her I feel like I’m doing a bad job and I’m exhausted and in pain. Anyone have any suggestions on how to feel a bit mentally better during this time?
I'm sorry you feel this way. This early stage is especially hard. For some reason, babies just like like to stay up at night. May I ask why you feel like you're doing bad job? It is definitely exhausting. But you got this. I remember this stage, but I made it through. Since she's up at night, try to get some rest in the day time when she's asleep. This is not time to entertain guests, but time for bonding with baby. resting, and recovering. Don't try to do everything (chores, cook, clean, etc). Just take this time to rest.If you're having pain breastfeeding, try to consult with a lactation consultant. Baby is most likely not latching well. I hope this helps. Don't beat yourself up. You're doing great!❤️