I have no idea me and my partner are going through this right now, lol We just try to compromise the best we can
It’s hard. We try to compromise or whoever cares more gets it. For safety, the safest idea wins.
I honestly thought we would be on the same page with way more than we actually are and he is 1. It’s a bit concerning. We both feel strongly about certain things and we both think we are making the best/safest choice. I think it’s important to be a team but I am realizing that the reality of parenting isn’t that. Hopefully we can make it look that way when he gets older. I used to use my parents disagreeing on what to do with me to get away with more. Not proud of it but it’s fueling my early concerns.
Yeah even if you disagree, you’re supposed to put up a unified front in front of the kid. You say, we’ll discuss this together and then tell you what we decided…
We usually talk about it, each explain why we feel the way we do and either one person manages to get the other one to see their perspective or we find a compromise