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@Colleen thank you for replying! I’ve had a successful pregnancy before but recently had 2 in a row and even though they say 3 for referral they did it anyway because I’m in my 30s now. Did you still try to conceive during testing or while you waited to be seen? Xx
@Lisa we kept actively trying throughout all of it. I had 2 miscarriages and then couldn't get pregnant for a year after that too and as I was 35 I got the referral straight away
@Colleen oh that’s good to hear! I’m glad you’ve had your rainbow babies 🥰 I don’t know if I can actively try right now incase I have a 3rd miscarriage I feel like it’ll send me over the edge in a bad way mentally you know :( it’s been traumatic enough as it is which I’m sure you understand the feeling xx
@Lisa absolutely! It's so important to look after your mental and physical health with everything! Do what's right for you and your family. I hope it all works out for you xx
I’m in the same boat!
@M I’m sorry to hear that! It’s awful and so frustrating that’s it’s unexplained at the moment… I have just had another positive test currently 4wks 4days but hard to be excited yet, just hoping this one sticks tbh 🤞🏻
@Lisa fingers crossed for you! We found out we were pregnant again the day before our RMC appointment with nhs and also had private tests done. Had scan at EPU last week and they couldn’t see heart yet so got to go back to find out if 3rd miscarriage or was just too early!
@M thank you I have everything crossed! Awh bless you, I hope it was just too early you! Xx
They'll take details of family history, do a uterus check (internal scan) and blood tests. Mine came back showing no reasons for the recurrent miscarriages and I was advised to take progesterone pessaries as soon as I had a positive pregnancy test. After quite a wait I then went on to have 2 successful pregnancies