The 3 hours he's asleep you can't walk away?
@Dianna I can but then it’s like I get 10-20 mins and then he wakes up looking for me. Then I go up and he’s instantly asleep. He used to nap independently really well but I went back to work (and decided to leave work and stay home about 4.5 months ago). Since I’ve come home from work he has not like napping by himself. But he sleeps at night perfectly. Which everyone has told me normally night time is the struggle
Oh I’m happy laying with my kid until he falls asleep but it’s the 3 hours I’m staying with him I don’t want to do anymore. It’s been almost 2 years of it and while I love it I’m overwhelmed and overworked with staying up h too midnight just catching up on basic things like dishes I can’t slowly tidy up at naptime