I agree with alisha don't try. We started trying for baby number 3 beginning of this year...a few months in started ovulation testing and still nothing. Got so stressed and upset each month decided now to stop 'trying' but carry on trying without the pressure I'm not even looking at my app to check ovulation or periods.
I’m pregnant with our second and we just went with the ‘not trying actively just not preventing it’ aka I didn’t check my ovulation and we just went with it. It puts less pressure on it for us 🥰
Just treat it like the first time, don't do anything to prevent it, if it happens it happens, don't put too much pressure on it. I think I've seen online a lot of people say once they stopped actively trying they got pregnant