Hi lovely, I’m feeling this too (I was 10 weeks when I found out about my MMC) ❤️ this is week 2 of not bleeding which I assume means it’s all done (it’s taken over a month to stop) I’ve been told to do a test next Tuesday to confirm it’s negative and ‘complete’. I then go back to work on the 21st hoping it will help normality and get back into a routine and be distracted. But these last few days I’ve really felt low. I’m not sure if it’s just hit me everything I’ve been through but I will find myself crying constantly ❤️ I’m also unsure if my hormones are just everywhere and potentially having a period soon because I just done feel 100% no energy and no appetite 😔. Feel free to message me xx
Im so sorry💔. I'm a big fan of couseling. I'm in the Middle of a MMC but I haven't started bleeding yet so I'm in a big limbo. Most of the days are grim and I hardly have one without crying, especially cuz I know the worse is yet to come for me. So I'm going back to therapy to see if it helps me make peace with the situation. I also find that speaking to other women who ve been through it is helpful, but not always easy. I hope you can have some better days soon ❤️
So sorry for your loss. It’s much harder than people realise and just one of those things that take time. For me I went away with my husband for a couple days just to try feel a bit normal and do something normal and it definitely helped xx
@Jenny I'm so sorry. The limbo stage is so awful and what follows is no better. I would definitely recommend going back to therapy. My details have been passed onto a miscarriage counselor so now waiting for them to get in touch with me❤️
@Charlotte I only took a week off work and that was for the physical side of it. Today I realised that was not enough and after a week and a day being back at work I know I'm not ready for it. My GP has signed me off for 3 weeks and the hospital has given my information to a charity who have counselors. I'll have a listen to those podcasts. Thanks for the recommendations xxx
@Charlotte the worst girl gang ever podcast is so what I needed. Thank you so much for this. I've cried a lot but I feel so seen
So sorry for your loss ❤️ I've had two miscarriages and I felt just like this with my first one. I wish I had some advice but it was just time with me you will feel better with time but I won't lie it gets easier but it's always there. I don't know if they gave you a scan picture but I made a little framed book for mine so I didn't have to look at it all the time but it was there if I wanted to x