@Hattie I love that website! Thank you!
I’ve had 4 miscarriages and currently 32 weeks pregnant with my rainbow. I honestly didn’t really accept this pregnancy is good and healthy until midway through the second trimester when I started feeling his movements. I was and am so excited but I was also absolutely terrified. It didn’t help that I had spotting and bleeding throughout the first trimester but I’m having a textbook normal pregnancy. In the beginning I took a lot of tests as well. What also helped was booking private ultrasounds. I got one done at 17 weeks and it really helped ease my mind since I wasn’t really feeling any movement yet! Theres always fears of course, but I promise the anxiety and scared feeling does get better. I hope this pregnancy goes really well for you💕
Currently 35 weeks. The goal post for me just keeps changing firstly was following 12 week scan as we discovered our miscarriage at that baby’s 12week scan. Then didn’t feel safe till private scan at 16 weeks we told people then but that gave me anxiety about there being something wrong at 20 weeks anomaly scan 😞 but every day I feel baby move it gives me reassurance. Had major wobble when I had period of reduced movement was too scared to be monitored cause I was adamant I’d be told there’s no heart beat and now births approaching I’m starting to think something will go wrong. Pregnancy after loss is soo hard. I simply just try and take it day by day x
I felt a bit better after my 12 week scan but I only really started to feel confident when I started feeling her move. I found this website useful in calming my first trimester nerves though https://datayze.com/miscarriage-reassurer