I don't understand

i hear u. mine hasnt seen our son for months he has his mom take care of him. i asked him for a pic once while his mom was watching our son & he said he has no pictures of our son 😐

because men are horrible x

@honey Not cool at all

I know what you mean. Mine hasn't seen her for a week and he's off work he's just choosing not to see her and making excuses. .

@Jade Barnett I'm so sorry. That's so annoying! Mine come home then tell them he'll be back real fast and comes back a day or days later when he's off and tries to apologize to them. My 5yo. Is already over him. But claims he misses them all the time. He really had the nerve to say he came home and was parked down the street but didn't come home because he didn't feel like talking or being bothered like these not his kids too

It's okay. I understand that. I've come to realise that if he doesn't care about me or our daughter then he not going to have access to her like he wants because he's not worth the time of day at the moment. I thought someone was in the house last night and he didn't bother to check in with us at all make sure we both were okay, his excuse was he was fast asleep nice to see he can sleep where as I've lost a lot of sleep for the past 5 weeks since he's left us.

Some of us would prefer it that way lol

That’s hard. I wish every parent was involved the way they should be. OP I’m sorry this is happening to your kids. It’s hard for them to feel unwanted and unloved. @Mercedes it’s not cool to generalize that way.

It's that Y chromosome lol but it depends on the age I'm assuming yours is younger my son is 15 and we don't talk everyday he stays with his dad full time so he can finish high school where he started and he has travel ball and more I moved via military He prefers it that way as when you're a teenager you need your friends more than your parents it bothered me at first but we are still close