@Jess yeah we are weaning her , however she isn't very interested, turns her face away at everything and hates the highchair and the bouncer. My 2.5yr old could potentially be autistic and our specialist mentioned this could be why her sleep is so erratic. I can naturally wake up early , never wake up midday or anything , so random like today i had an appointment and both babies woke up at 8am....bith asleep now but then 2moro could be another story .
Oh gosh it sounds like your a little bit of a pickle 😬 I’m not judging you, but does you little one need the last feed that late? Are you weaning them? I know it’s hard but maybe you need to complete change both their routines to something more manageable as waking up at midday is not health for them nor you x