Am I being unreasonable

I spoke to my partner about having no respect for me because I've always been a push over but I don't want my baby growing up in that dynamic so I said he needs to not criticise me etc from now on. I've gave him multiple chances to be just a nice person and it always fails. I felt a rush of panic coming over me today knowing he was going to have a go at me for something which he did. So I basically just want to leave the man now. On top of that he screamed there was something wrong with our baby when she was just crying as normal which pisses me off because what sick person would act like that not because he actually thought there was anything wrong, he just wanted me to take baby off him asap. I have no money to leave but I'll be saving everything I can to get away

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Why does it have to take us having a baby to realise how much more we deserve! Yes they don't like it when you stand your ground and put boundaries up... Good on you and good luck 🫶 About 6 weeks ago I split up with my ex basically same reasons

@Radka I'm glad someone gets it because you can't tell the whole story in just a few words! But yeah, he has treated me badly since we started dating but I think I had really low self esteem. I want my baby to grow up confident and not be a push over so I've tried to change both them things about myself too 🙏 Good on you too! Weight off your shoulders that's for sure 😃 xx

If you need a chat to talk it out you can message me, my daughter is in bed now so I can talk :) Yeah I was on my way up when I met my now ex, he dragged me back down, I don't think he realises he does that, coz when he moved out he moved in with his daughter and her partner (he has older kids and then our little one) he's then been complaining to me about her for same stuff I kicked him out for 🤦🤯🤣 I actually get on with him now better then before, it's not been 6 weeks he's moved out and it's improved so much... No we won't get back together, but co-parenting feels not as heavy xxx

@Radka you can only make your way back up now 🥰 at least co parenting is going good! So happy for you 💞 I just wish mine would move out 😂 haha but we both have no money 🙈 x

Respect is not unreasonable. You need to do what’s best for your baby and have them grow up knowing it’s not right to treat people a certain way. Everyone deserves respect, treat others the way you’d like to be treated. In this world today we need to start teaching that more. Having no respect for you is also not having respect for your child. Never question if teaching your child respect is unreasonable. And if he doesn’t get that then… bye 👋🏼

He sounds like a manchild. Try to get out of this situation asap. I’m not sure where you are but try to reach out to some local support groups/charities as this sounds like abuse to me.

Yep leave and contact services asap mate there will be help for you,

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